The 7 C’s To Landing A Beautiful Woman

As men, we often get intimidated when we see a beautiful woman in the room. Worse even is when we see that beautiful woman with a guy who doesn’t deserve to be with her. In most cases we would jump to the quick stereotype of her being a gold digger, saying that she’s only with him for his money. But it goes beyond that. Even if you have money, there are certain characteristics you need to exhibit if you want to land that girl of your dreams.

Here now, I present to you the 7 C’s to landing a beautiful woman:

1) Confidence
We start off with this one because it is one of the most crucial. A man needs to be exhibit a sense of confidence in the way he carries himself. Beautiful women need men who know how to feel comfortable in all situations. She is often the center of attention wherever she goes, and she needs someone who can hold his own (think Albert at the party with Allegra in the movie Hitch). Be careful not to be overly confident to the point of cockiness, that is one of the quickest ways to drive her away.

2) Cleanliness
Take a shower, put on some deodorant, get a haircut and ace the 5 o’clock shadow. If you want an attractive woman you need to make yourself presentable.

3) Charisma
Be interesting and unique, someone that other people want to be around (recall how Alfie keeps women hanging on his every word). Beautiful women meet tons of people every day, and pathetic guys drooling all over them are certainly in no short supply. You need to separate yourself from the rest of the pack — do something that will leave a positive, lasting first impression so that she won’t soon forget you.

4) Charity
Be giving to others. Despite the common stereotype, a beautiful woman really doesn’t want to date a jerk. Be the guy who is thoughtful and genuine to everyone. Women notice how you treat other women, so position yourself as the sweetheart guy (think Bill Bellamy dancing with the ugly girl in How To Be A Player).

5) Communication
This one may be blatantly obvious but it’s easy to under appreciate. Bottom line: you need to be able to talk to her. If you walk up to engage her in conversation and your body is suddenly overcome by rigamortis what use will she have for you? Absolutely none. So turn off the computer, stop threatening 12-year-olds on Xbox live, get out of the basement and learn how to initiate and maintain a discussion with a member of the opposite sex. Ask her how she is and how her day was. Showing a genuine interest in her will get you a long way.

6) Chivalry
Sorry guys, but chivalry is not dead. Women like Beyonce may be independent, but they still enjoy being treated like a lady. Open doors, hold elevators, pull out seats when sitting at a table. Chivalristic acts of this nature will show a beautiful woman how great of a catch you are, and will make her more inclined to choose you from the bunch.

7) Career
Although most women are not gold diggers, they all need that sense of security and stability. You don’t need the pockets of Larry or Sergey, but you do need to have a job with enough income to pay the bills — no, employment at the BK Lounge does not satisfy this requirement. No beautiful woman wants to be the breadwinner while you’re at home playing WoW all day. Have some ambition and drive to succeed, laziness is nothing but unappealing to beautiful women.

I hope these seven points have provided you with something of substance that you can take away and apply to your own lives. Please feel free to contribute any additional C’s that could help our fellow men in their quest for beautiful women.